Hi, I'm Upeka!
Counsellor & Coach for Women
Counsellor & Coach for Women

Hi, I'm Upeka!

 

We swallow a lot.

Feelings. Emotions. Boundaries. Needs. Truths. Our gifts, our songs, our voices.

How many tears have you held in?
How much anger?
How many times have you wanted to say something and swallowed it from fear?
How many moments have you stayed silent, feeling unworthy of taking up space?

I believe it is through swallowing these things that we create blocks within us. Emotions, words, truths that get stuck inside.

The work is to look at these suppressed parts of ourselves. To dare to face them, to hold them, to let them finally move through us. In this we learn to trust the tough processes more and more, to feel safe as we move through deep emotions.

And so we also lessen our need to swallow.

The less we swallow, the more we can show up in our truth, our joy, in alignment.

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Work with me

I am a counselor and coach supporting women in moving from swallowing their emotions and truth… to feeling, expressing, and standing steady in who they are. 

Is there something alive in you that feels ready for deeper exploration? A block you keep running into? Something you are stuck on? Or something you simply wish to process more deeply?

You come with your intention, and together we explore what lives beneath it. Meeting the parts, emotions, and truths that have been swallowed, and giving them space to move.

We go inward so you can show up outward, with more truth, steadiness, joy, and a bigger yes to life!

€80 per session · 1.5 hours · weekly or biweekly

IFS parts work · somatic therapy · inner child work · present moment awareness · menstrual cycle awareness · ACT

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Hi! I'm Upeka

For much of my life, I swallowed parts of myself. My emotions, my fears, my needs, my gifts.  

My own healing path has been a process of unlearning this pattern of self-suppression. Of facing what I had pushed down. Of acknowledging the truths within me, and daring to express them.

It’s an ongoing work: to move through the waves of life with less pushing down.

Can you relate? 

This is a space dedicated to the unswallowing

I’m here to walk with you as you move toward your truth, your feelings, and your expression.

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Testimonials

“With Upeka’s guidance, I was able to work through my grief and loss, gaining a deeper understanding of myself, my wants, needs, and desires. I feel more confident in living a healthier, more holistic lifestyle, more intune with my intuition and inner voice..

One of Upeka’s greatest strengths is her ability to deliver challenging feedback in a way that’s honest yet non-judgmental…”

Malika

“Working with Upeka has truly been a great gift for me. Before we started, I felt stuck and unsure about how to move forward. Upeka created a safe and supportive space where I could explore my goals and challenges without judgment.

Through her guidance, I gained clarity, confidence, and actionable steps to achieve my aspirations. She is a bright, compassionate, supportive coach with immense patience and empathy…”

Anastasia

“…Even after many years of self-development, having her to talk things through with has been invaluable. She asks thoughtful and insightful questions, often bringing back themes or episodes from weeks before, giving me a sense of prespective I wouldn’t otherwise have. She’s the perfect mix of professionalism, warmth and empathy…”

Mariana